When I was growing up my Baptism Godparents were unknown to me. If you asked me how they looked like I can't even remember.
Perhaps, it's a Malaysian Chinese Catholic scenario. My first Holy Communion and even Confirmation was just a big deal during mass but after that there was no big family and friends gatherings to celebrate the event.
It is only after my marriage into a Catholic Malayalee family since 2001, that I realised what I've missed out all these years.
I discovered that all the Sacraments of the Church are celebrated afterwards with a big family and friends party either at home or in a restaurant with lots of pomp and splendour.
Mary Isabelle, my little three-year-old cradle Catholic, I'm so happy for you that so far you have had a great start.
I also discovered that many of my husband's family members have good to great relationships with their Godparents.
Compared to my almost non-existant relationship - it is to me, FANTASTIC!
Unfortunately, I have not been a very good Godparent. One reason, I think is we, Patrick and I, have too many Godchildren - both adults and children.
Doesn't help that my personality type is introverted and that I enjoy my own company the best.
However, this recent long Raya holidays, I've decided to start building relationship with at least one Godchild at a time.
So I made a date with Kimberly, one of our countless gifts from God, to go out and watch a movie last Tuesday.
It was a long overdue date which we were supposed to do for her birthday in January. As usual, things got busy and the date was delayed.
We watched The Wimpy Kid 3, a story about a teenager who was too much into video games and not into outdoor sports, a trait his dad wanted him to have.
It was funny and both of us laughed a lot. It also gave me the opportunity to explain some Americanised expressions to Kim.
After the movie, we had lunch at McDs and also her favourite dessert - ice shavings.
Kim and I at McDonalds after the movie.
But what I most treasured most was the moment she started to open up to me. Although it was just a few personal sharings about her life, but I was happy to be her listening ear.
I suddenly remembered what the facilitator of Mary Isabelle's Baptism told us, that Godparents play a very important role because sometimes when children find it hard to communicate with their parents, Godparents are the ones they can turn to.
Thank you Lord for that wonderful affirmation.
I was glad Mary Isabelle had some quality time with her Godmother that day too.
You see, Kim is my Godchild and Mary is Kim's parents' Godchild.
That itself is a story for another blog entry.
Perhaps, it's a Malaysian Chinese Catholic scenario. My first Holy Communion and even Confirmation was just a big deal during mass but after that there was no big family and friends gatherings to celebrate the event.
It is only after my marriage into a Catholic Malayalee family since 2001, that I realised what I've missed out all these years.
I discovered that all the Sacraments of the Church are celebrated afterwards with a big family and friends party either at home or in a restaurant with lots of pomp and splendour.
Mary Isabelle, my little three-year-old cradle Catholic, I'm so happy for you that so far you have had a great start.
I also discovered that many of my husband's family members have good to great relationships with their Godparents.
Compared to my almost non-existant relationship - it is to me, FANTASTIC!
Unfortunately, I have not been a very good Godparent. One reason, I think is we, Patrick and I, have too many Godchildren - both adults and children.
Doesn't help that my personality type is introverted and that I enjoy my own company the best.
However, this recent long Raya holidays, I've decided to start building relationship with at least one Godchild at a time.
So I made a date with Kimberly, one of our countless gifts from God, to go out and watch a movie last Tuesday.
It was a long overdue date which we were supposed to do for her birthday in January. As usual, things got busy and the date was delayed.
We watched The Wimpy Kid 3, a story about a teenager who was too much into video games and not into outdoor sports, a trait his dad wanted him to have.
It was funny and both of us laughed a lot. It also gave me the opportunity to explain some Americanised expressions to Kim.
After the movie, we had lunch at McDs and also her favourite dessert - ice shavings.
Kim enjoying her favourite Sesame flavoured ice shavings after lunch...yummy.
But what I most treasured most was the moment she started to open up to me. Although it was just a few personal sharings about her life, but I was happy to be her listening ear.
I suddenly remembered what the facilitator of Mary Isabelle's Baptism told us, that Godparents play a very important role because sometimes when children find it hard to communicate with their parents, Godparents are the ones they can turn to.
Thank you Lord for that wonderful affirmation.
I was glad Mary Isabelle had some quality time with her Godmother that day too.
You see, Kim is my Godchild and Mary is Kim's parents' Godchild.
That itself is a story for another blog entry.
